Be gracious in your speech. My purpose for you life is not to exalt other's idea of you. I want you to exalt their idea of Me. Let the words that flow out of you be rich with direction and blessing. Many people will try to harm you while acting like they have your best interests at heart. You must truly desire the best of others. You must put them before yourself. Crucify flesh. Lay your own rights down. Turn the other cheek so that people can grasp my grace. When they fall, help them up. By this they may know Me.
"He who loves purity of heart and whose speech is gracious, the king is his friend."
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