The whole of My desire toward you is not that you would have perfect control over yourself, but that you would come to Me. Success is not the issue that I have with My children. My heart is for you to be with Me. Cling to My Son. Yearn for Christ. Wrap yourself in the fluidity of His being and linger in His shelter. The things you try to force are a gift He gives. Jesus heals the heart. Jesus speaks into the deep recesses of pain that you cannot reach. Let Him do the work for you. Rest. Cling to grace.
"He heals the broken hearted and binds up their wounds."
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