Press on in grace. Of course you don't want to condone sinful actions toward you or your family. You must stay calm and redirect it with honor and grace. Honor everyone around you regardless of their lack of kindness. Remind yourself of the man who was forgiven a great debt by a ruler and then went and imprisoned the man who owed him little. The ruler called the man who had been forgiven a huge debt the wicked one. In his wickedness, he refused to forgive as he had been forgiven. Extend your pardon to others.
"I am writing to you, dear children, because your sins have been forgiven on account of his name."
1 John 2:12
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